40 Years of Wishes

Kelly's wish to meet Miley Cyrus (Hannah Montana)

Before Kelly was born, her parents knew she would face a lifelong medical journey. Diagnosed with a congenital heart defect, Kelly entered the world already preparing for a series of complex surgeries that would shape her earliest years. Her first operation came at just six days old, followed by additional surgeries at one and three years old at Columbia Presbyterian, including the Fontan procedure to help stabilize her heart.

Too young to remember the surgeries themselves, Kelly instead remembers a childhood filled with doctor’s appointments, specialist visits, and hospital checkups. While other children were building memories in classrooms and playgrounds, many of hers were formed in waiting rooms and exam rooms. Through it all, Kelly grew into someone strong and determined. “The defect has always been part of my life,” she reflects. “It helped shape me into the person I am today.”

When doctors first mentioned Make-A-Wish to her parents, Kelly felt surprised. At about seven years old, she felt honored, even a little shocked, to be considered for a wish, and most of all, it gave her something joyful to look forward to.

That excitement grew when her Wish Granters, father-and-son duo Robert and Jamie Barr, arrived at her home. Though typically shy, Kelly was also surprised by how quickly she opened up. Her excitement and their warmth made her feel comfortable right away. Instead of focusing on her illness, they focused on her dreams, and one dream stood out above the rest: To meet Miley Cyrus at a Hannah Montana concert.

Like so many kids growing up in the late 2000s, Kelly was captivated by Miley Cyrus/Hannah Montana and her larger-than-life personality. “She was so big in that era,” Kelly says. “I felt like my wish had to be this. It had to be her. It was always her.” She admired how Miley made kids feel like they can be whoever they wanted.

On November 7, 2009, that dream became reality. At just eight years old, Kelly found herself face-to-face with the celebrity she had admired for so long. “I remember thinking, this isn’t a dream… this is real life, and she’s right there in front of me,” she recalls. During their time together, Miley signed her book and CD, complimented her outfit, and answered her questions about writing songs. But what stood out most was how Kelly was treated. “Miley treated me like a completely normal person,” she says. “She made me feel like I was supposed to be there.”

The experience continued with a limousine ride and a Hannah Montana concert, creating a night filled with excitement, celebration, and a sense of normalcy she would never forget.

Today, at 24 years old, Kelly is building a life rooted in the same resilience that carried her through childhood. After graduating from Fairfield University with degrees in communications and health studies, she now works at the Westchester County Association, collaborating with local businesses, hospitals, and nonprofits to strengthen the regional community. “As I’ve gotten older, I’ve wanted to give back to everyone who gave so much to me,” she says.

That desire has come full circle. Last summer, Kelly and her mom returned to volunteer with Make-A-Wish Hudson Valley and were thrilled to learn that Jamie is still involved. Now, the father-and-son duo who once helped grant her wish has inspired a new chapter: Kelly and her mom are preparing to become a Wish Granter mother-and-daughter duo themselves, ready to create life-changing experiences for other children.

“Wishes have evolved so much since my own in 2009,” Kelly says. “I’m thankful I get to experience it from the volunteer point of view now. I want the kids I help to feel as special as I did on my wish day.”

Seventeen years later, her wish still lives on in everyday moments. A photo from the day she met Miley still hangs in her room, and she remains a devoted fan of her music. When she hears a song, she still pauses and thinks, wow, I got to meet her.

“When you grow up sick, you’re often too young to fully understand what’s happening,” she reflects. “Having something to look forward to gives you a sense of normalcy. It was something I’ll never forget.”

Today, as she steps forward to help grant wishes for others, Kelly’s story is a reminder that one wish doesn’t end when the day is over. It grows into a lifetime of compassion, connection, and hope for the next child who needs it most. 💙

 

“Having something to look forward to gives you a sense of normalcy. It was something I’ll never forget.”

Kelly

Wish Alumni